Future Me: The Mentor You’ve Been Waiting For
What if you could borrow wisdom from yourself… the insightful, thoughtful, most confident version of yourself?
We spend so much time worrying about how to be the “perfect” version of ourselves that we tend to forget that “she” already exists. She’s not the flawless fantasy living in a Pinterest worthy house that we sometimes fantasize about with zero insecurities. She’s just… you, a little further down the road. The unapologetic badass version of you who’s done playing games and ready to get down to business.
And guess what?? She’s available to be your greatest mentor starting right now!
Future You Knows What’s Up!
Think about it: Future You has already been there done that. She’s survived the things you’re stewing about spending hours and hours of your precious time dwelling on. She’s handled the awkward meetings, the demanding boss, the ungrateful children (wink), the challenging employees, figured out how to say no without guilt, and moved past that thing you’re overanalzying at 2 a.m.
She is NOT coming to JUDGE YOU- she’s simply coming to NUDGE YOU out of overthinking reminding you:
👉 “That one awkward comment isn’t going to ruin your career.”
👉 “You’re not behind—you’re killin it”
👉 “You have better ways to spend your time my friend”
👉 “Nobody’s replaying that moment on loop except you.”
👉 “Drink some water and send the email—it’s not that deep.”
👉 “You don’t need another pro/con list. You need a nap.”
👉 “They’re not thinking about you as much as you think they are.”
👉 “Perfection is overrated. Done is way sexier.”
👉 “Girl, just send and move on. The world won’t end.”
👉 “That imaginary jury in your head? They’ve been dismissed.”
👉 “Spoiler alert: You survive and it all works out.”
How to Check In with Her
The next time you’re spiraling in overthinking, try this:
Pause. Literally stop mid-spin.
Ask: “What would I want to remember about this a year from now?”
Listen. Don’t overcomplicate it—let her answer show up in a sentence or two.
Most of the time, Future You is short, sweet, and to the point. She has no interest in wasting your time! Give her a few minutes everyday and put her wisdom to good use!
Small Ways to keep the Relationship Strong!
The more you “check in” with her, the stronger that bond gets.
Start your day with a FUTURE ME check in:
What activities or tasks would you advise completing today/ What’s going to give me the most bang for my buck?
How can I get out of my own way today?
What’s one thing you would appreciate me doing today no matter what?
What would you remind me of when I lose motivation or desire to follow through?
What steps can I take to create momentum in even the smallest ways?
“What drama am I wasting energy on that you literally don’t even remember?”
“What would you tell me to stop overcomplicating and just do already?”
“If I keep stalling, what hilarious story are you going to tell about this someday?”
“What would you tell me to say ‘nope, not today’ SATAN” to?”
“What’s the one thing I’ll be glad I did instead of scrolling for 2 hours?”
“How would you tell me to celebrate the small win I’ll probably ignore or not give myself credit for?”
“What reminder would you offer me today?”
“If today was a motivating playlist, what songs would be playing?”
Final Thoughts:
Future You isn’t a fantasy to chase—she’s your built-in mentor. And every time you pause, check in, and take her advice, you’re not just moving toward her… you’re becoming her
The truth is: she’s already in you.
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